i had lunch with an old friend the other day. actually, he was a good friend of one of my ex-boyfriends. we had a great lunch, talked about what was happening in our lives, etc. i remember thinking that he hadn't changed a bit -- still looks the same, but i guess a little bit more mature :b

so we talked on the phone the other night and i couldn't help but wonder how he thought i had changed, if at all, from when i first met him while i was going to university. i *had* to ask. :b

he said, i looked the same, still bubbly and happy... and then he said that i've always been an easy person to talk to. "whaT? ME? really?!" i was a bit shocked... guess no one really has told me that outright. and i was very glad to hear it.

i think back of all my friends, past and present. there have been a few friends who have really leaned on me when they were going thru hard times -- breakups in relationships, especially. am i easy to talk to?

then i think of my past relationships. i was always big on talking about anything.. even stupid trivial stuff :) yah.. talking is important. maybe thats why i love 3 hour dinners -- good food and engaging conversation :)