the men in vancouver

i was at the spa this weekend and, as usual, carried on some small talk -- weather, weekend plans, work, family, etc. but then our conversation drifted to the topic of men, the men in our lives, the men who we *want* in our lives, and of course, the men who we wish weren't in our lives hahahaha. it really was an interesting conversation. my esthetician did most of the talking (i'm a really good listener!), and she was talking about how there aren't a lot of good men in vancouver (!).

she moved here about 6 months ago and has made a lot of friends, but she hasn't had a lot of luck in the guy department since she's moved here. you're probably thinking, oh, she must not be very attractive. but really, she's a gorgeous girl, tall, blonde, with a great easy-going personality. oh and all you bachelors out there who want to meet her, let me know and i'll give you her name so you can ask for her when you go for your next manicure! ;)

i thought it was an interesting conversation and i really didn't think much of it -- just an opinion.

but then i was at a wedding reception tonite and i had an opportunity to talk to the bride for a few minutes.. while she had a longer break inbetween all the festivities. we talked about how lucky she was to have found her guy and then she told me that she found it incredibly difficult to find a good guy in vancouver. i was taken aback to hear the same conclusion from two beautiful ladies in the span of 24 hours! are there really no good guys in vancouver left?

so you must be thinking, what do you mean by good? i guess there are many definitions (and if you want to hear mine, just ask me over coffee or something one day :) ), but i'm really curious.. all you bachelorettes out there, what's your take on the men in vancouver?